girl, all you do is talk shit about other people. 

how you gonna sit there thinking you’re not negative?

youre a joke. before you put yourself on that pedestal, you should probably look in the mirror. 

A few years ago, I got into a really bad car accident where my cell phone broke. I had to use the EMT’s phone, but I wasn’t really calm enough to do it, so he was trying to call my parents in order to pick me up and take me to safety, etc. They wouldn’t answer their phones. Not the house phone, their cell phones, their work phones, nothing. You know that joke you always tell when your parents don’t answer the phones? “WHAT IF I GOT INTO A CAR ACCIDENT OR DIED AND YOU’D NEVER KNOW CAUSE YOU DIDN’T ANSWER YOUR PHONE?!”

Well, my parents were just about to find out what the real consequences of ignoring phone calls just for the fuck of it were. It took the EMT over an hour and a half to get a hold of my parents. AN HOUR. AND. A HALF. And what’s more worrisome was I was on my way to meet them for dinner, so it was as if they didn’t even care that I was missing. Let’s just say that EMT was not pleased when they finally arrived. They looked smug getting out of the car, smirking at me. I was in tears, shielded almost from them by two EMT officers who were LIVID as hell at my family for just abandoning me at an accident site like this. (I was also waived of this time because of my parents incompetence and because these guys were really really awesome, and I know I would usually be charged for just sitting in an EMT using their blanket and keeping warm). 

The head guy saunters out to them, and my dad INTERRUPTS HIS PATH trying to get to me. The EMT stops him physically and says, “Sir, I’m gonna have to have a word with you.”

Now. I don’t know what was all said to my parents. But I do know their faces went from smartass smirks to “we really fucked this one up, didn’t we?”

The EMT walked me over to my parents car, and put me in the passengers seat. He looked at both my parents sternly and smiled at me and told me to feel better and that this would all work out. 

Let’s just say that my parents were pretty good about answering their phones for a little while after that. 

But sometimes I think I need to call that guy up and tell them they forgot what he said because they really, REALLY love to ignore phone calls for no reason what so ever. And I live 6 hours away. And this time, if something DID happen, they really wouldn’t know if I was dead. 

TLDR; One time my parents didn’t answer their phones when I got into a car accident, and and EMT gave them a what for. 

PARENTS: If you have kids, and you just choose NOT to answer their calls, DO NOT DO THIS. I get that talking to your kids about shitty shit all of the time is annoying, even when they’re over 18 (which I was at the time), but that doesn’t mean you are NO LONGER their parent. And they could be in danger. Don’t ignore phone calls. They are still important. Nobodies going to text you if they’re in a life threatening situation.

its 11:30

i finished my homework. i ate dinner. i took out the trash. i cleaned up as much as i can before i leave for the weekend (lazy ass me is being lazy and i can finish cleaning when i get back because who gives a fuck) and all i have left to do is pack. 

i planned my outfit for saturday so at least i have that figured out. saturday has me in a ball of a stress. im just hoping it goes well. 

i leave tomorrow after school and get to drive six hours so great. woo. wonderful. this weekend has already not gone as planned and it hasnt even started yet. 

king-emare:

onlyblackgirl:

pastel-gizibe:

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U.S. Mother Gives Away 5-Year-Old Adopted Child From Haiti For Throwing Temper Tantrum




"Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old American mom from Spokane, Washington.
After she volunteered in an orphanage in Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband adopted a 5-year-old Haitian boy named “J.”
Conner claims the boy had attachment disorder and began a strict regimen of attachment parenting of constant surveillance in which a child must often ask for food and water. After two months, J threw a tantrum where he unintentionally hit Conner’s nose with the back of his head.
Conner says the 5-year-old’s strike was accidental, but describes it as “a domestic violence situation. Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J.”

J was sent to live with another family in the Midwest. Conner’s biological children adjusted seamlessly to life without their adoptive brother. But other people were puzzled. Neighbors who had seen J riding his bike asked, “Where’s your son?” When Conner answered truthfully, “I’d get the most horrified stares, so I’d keep walking. And I didn’t tell many out-of-town friends or extended family for months.”

Despite such events, the Conners were approved by local social workers to become a foster family, and in October 2013 received a 3-month-old boy as their first placement.

Sources: [x] [x]


white people will let their white kids karate chop them in the throat and call them names in public, but a black child becomes naturally upset after you treat the kid like a grown criminal/animal and you just give them away. go it. sounds reasonable.

"i’d get the most horrified stares"geewonder why

This is why we don’t trust y’all white savior “oh check out this profile pic of me and these smiling poor brown children. You can tell I really made a difference” asses

The fact that for the most part these people are allowed to do shit like this with no legal punishment or recourse on behalf of the children being abused is mind boggling.

She literally treated that child like a dog.
Actually no, she’d probably treat a dog better.
Accidents like that happen all the time with children, and her first instinct is to stop loving the child and give it away?
I can’t.
I hope that beautiful boy is okay, and with a family that treats him like gold.

Welcome to the adoption industry where they give zero fucks about the well being of the child.

smh


Okay, woah. Welcome to the adoption industry? Cases like this are few and far between. Yes, the appear. Yes, they happen. And yes, white people are generally the perpetrators because lets face it, white people generally suck and I’m a white person. I live with this shit. But I am also adopted. And if I wasn’t adopted, I’d either be addicted to drugs, dead, or in jail. That’s not an exaggeration, that’s where my siblings are (who weren’t adopted). So please don’t generalize shit like that. A lot of good comes from adoption, while a lot of bad does as well. Which is why placement agencies need to do a lot more in depth research into who these families are they are putting these children with so we can avoid this shit from happening. You really want to look into a fucked up system? Go criticize the american foster system. I can count over a dozen of my friends who have been damaged by that. I will also add that I have reactive attachment disorder, and my family, who is white, did not use attachment disorder therapy because of how obviously abusive it is. I did end up in a treatment center when I was 13 for other issues, and even there I was treated better than most kids going through attachment therapy and I was seeing a therapist who specialized in attachment disorders. So. This woman clearly should not have children of her own, foster any, or adopt any ever again.

king-emare:

onlyblackgirl:

pastel-gizibe:

note-a-bear:

the-chandelier-swing:

blackfemalepresident:

steppauseturnpausepivotstepstep:

brandx:

U.S. Mother Gives Away 5-Year-Old Adopted Child From Haiti For Throwing Temper Tantrum

"Having an instant multicultural family was magical for about two weeks,” says Stacey Conner, a 41-year-old American mom from Spokane, Washington.

After she volunteered in an orphanage in Haiti in 2005, Conner and her husband adopted a 5-year-old Haitian boy named “J.”

Conner claims the boy had attachment disorder and began a strict regimen of attachment parenting of constant surveillance in which a child must often ask for food and water. After two months, J threw a tantrum where he unintentionally hit Conner’s nose with the back of his head.

Conner says the 5-year-old’s strike was accidental, but describes it as “a domestic violence situation. Forget love. Right then, I didn’t even like J.”

J was sent to live with another family in the Midwest. Conner’s biological children adjusted seamlessly to life without their adoptive brother. But other people were puzzled. Neighbors who had seen J riding his bike asked, “Where’s your son?” When Conner answered truthfully, “I’d get the most horrified stares, so I’d keep walking. And I didn’t tell many out-of-town friends or extended family for months.”
Despite such events, the Conners were approved by local social workers to become a foster family, and in October 2013 received a 3-month-old boy as their first placement.
Sources: [x] [x]

white people will let their white kids karate chop them in the throat and call them names in public, but a black child becomes naturally upset after you treat the kid like a grown criminal/animal and you just give them away. go it. sounds reasonable.

"i’d get the most horrified stares"
gee
wonder why

This is why we don’t trust y’all white savior “oh check out this profile pic of me and these smiling poor brown children. You can tell I really made a difference” asses

The fact that for the most part these people are allowed to do shit like this with no legal punishment or recourse on behalf of the children being abused is mind boggling.

She literally treated that child like a dog.

Actually no, she’d probably treat a dog better.

Accidents like that happen all the time with children, and her first instinct is to stop loving the child and give it away?

I can’t.

I hope that beautiful boy is okay, and with a family that treats him like gold.

Welcome to the adoption industry where they give zero fucks about the well being of the child.

smh

Okay, woah. Welcome to the adoption industry? Cases like this are few and far between. Yes, the appear. Yes, they happen. And yes, white people are generally the perpetrators because lets face it, white people generally suck and I’m a white person. I live with this shit. But I am also adopted. And if I wasn’t adopted, I’d either be addicted to drugs, dead, or in jail. That’s not an exaggeration, that’s where my siblings are (who weren’t adopted). So please don’t generalize shit like that. A lot of good comes from adoption, while a lot of bad does as well. Which is why placement agencies need to do a lot more in depth research into who these families are they are putting these children with so we can avoid this shit from happening. You really want to look into a fucked up system? Go criticize the american foster system. I can count over a dozen of my friends who have been damaged by that. I will also add that I have reactive attachment disorder, and my family, who is white, did not use attachment disorder therapy because of how obviously abusive it is. I did end up in a treatment center when I was 13 for other issues, and even there I was treated better than most kids going through attachment therapy and I was seeing a therapist who specialized in attachment disorders. So. This woman clearly should not have children of her own, foster any, or adopt any ever again.

Every time I hear anything about you I laugh so fuckin hard.

Good to know you’re still a two faced fucking joke. Lol.

i am just so confused.

wut.

im not doing anymore favors.

You are fucking disgusting. Grow the fuck up.

She keeps saying she wishes a bitch would. 😆

But what she doesn’t realize is this bitch already did and moved on. 😂😂

Cut cut bitch. It ain’t nothin. 😉

Get over it girl, I’m tired of hearing about your passive aggressive shit from other people. Stop stalking my shit and move on.

I’m officially at that stage in my life where I look back at pictures of myself and softly mutter ‘ohhh nooooo’